hello all,
im at my Nyai's house emjoying her company. i always ove to comeover and listen to her talk about anything. 'cos the one thing my Nyai gor perfected was random talk. she can talk about almost anything that comes to her mind. current issues, childhood memories and family.
there is a certain degree of openness when she talks about something. not that you can talk about anything to her, sex is mosdef not one of them. i'd rather have a open a random topic and just listen and try to put in my points. well try to since hse is such a chatterbox at her age.
though there is only one thing that can make me slightly annoyed and that is the fact that she always cooks for me and tries to feed me at least a weeks' amount of food. well okay, not a week lah. that is too much, lets just say alot, she likes to cook ALOT for me.she always say i am skinny and i should eat more. well, she hasn't seen me naked, that would be a shocker for her. hehehs.
but, i shouldn't complain so much. i've always had a soft spot for her cooking and next to my mother's their the best.
i guess when it comes tomy patrenal grandma, food has been a a way for her to shower her love on her grandchildren and i really hope that my children will get to experience it as well.
may both my grandmas live to the ripe old age of 100 and beyond. Amin Ya Rabbal Al-amin
Tuesday 11 October 2011
Sunday 9 October 2011
When there's good food.....
I'm at my uncle's house right now. A gathering for his wedding anniversary plus a surprise mini birthday celebration for my babybro.
As usual, the food is great and the company even greater.
Babysis and me are planning a trip to LA next year. So far 5 people are joining for the trip. Myself, sister, two of my cousins and babysis's bf. We'll be
going in late May cos that would be the best time to go since the weather in LA would be less wet. Perfect time to be visiting Venice beach and enjoying the nightlife without worrying of getting caught in the rain. I'm really hoping that this trip will succeed.
I'm now using the massage chair that my uncle has and enjoying a movie as well.
Till the next time. ;)
Monday 3 October 2011
a metamorphosis?
it has been slightly more than two weeks, i think. i dont keep track of the dates nor the days nowadays 'cos the more important ones have been stored in memory.
anyways. i have had quite a battle with myself this two weeks and a lot of decisions have been made, final decisions.
first, the decision to study has to be cancelled, maybe for the time being. 'cos my family needs the money and with me studying i can barely cover my own expenses and what with my family depending on me heavily for that extra financial help made me decide to just stick to my current job and fervently hope ilast until they post me out. shouldn't be that bad since some officers have served longer in woodlandsand they are still around. so yeah, gonna make this my job. career, not so much cos there's not much prospect as long as i get increments every year i'm all good. getting promoted over the years would be good enough for me too.
as for the exboy and the money he owes. well lets just say im not gonna ask. despite what others have adviced me to do, which is to ask from him the money he owes since he said he willl pay me back bit by bit. i just don't want to face the prospect of having to deal with him because of this money thing. if he's the man he sayshe was then he will pay me back without constant reminders from me, if not then i have been in love with a boy who thinks himself a man then.
and that's that. i've not been one to dally after exes and mosdef not gonna change that habit for this one. however i still appreciate the advice my closest of friends gave me.
and,
my r/ship with my sister has been repaired, not fully though. just enough for me to overlook her selfishness. she knows that too and with that i hope that she'll change for the better over the years. well she isn't getting any younger as well.
it's already october and the year is coming to a close soon. 2011 has been so-so for me thus far and here's hoping 2012 will be slightly brighter.
and i'm thinking of creating my own website but i don't have the time as of yet.
well, good day world!
anyways. i have had quite a battle with myself this two weeks and a lot of decisions have been made, final decisions.
first, the decision to study has to be cancelled, maybe for the time being. 'cos my family needs the money and with me studying i can barely cover my own expenses and what with my family depending on me heavily for that extra financial help made me decide to just stick to my current job and fervently hope ilast until they post me out. shouldn't be that bad since some officers have served longer in woodlandsand they are still around. so yeah, gonna make this my job. career, not so much cos there's not much prospect as long as i get increments every year i'm all good. getting promoted over the years would be good enough for me too.
as for the exboy and the money he owes. well lets just say im not gonna ask. despite what others have adviced me to do, which is to ask from him the money he owes since he said he willl pay me back bit by bit. i just don't want to face the prospect of having to deal with him because of this money thing. if he's the man he sayshe was then he will pay me back without constant reminders from me, if not then i have been in love with a boy who thinks himself a man then.
and that's that. i've not been one to dally after exes and mosdef not gonna change that habit for this one. however i still appreciate the advice my closest of friends gave me.
and,
my r/ship with my sister has been repaired, not fully though. just enough for me to overlook her selfishness. she knows that too and with that i hope that she'll change for the better over the years. well she isn't getting any younger as well.
it's already october and the year is coming to a close soon. 2011 has been so-so for me thus far and here's hoping 2012 will be slightly brighter.
and i'm thinking of creating my own website but i don't have the time as of yet.
well, good day world!
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